Mom Sexy Fridays??

Ok….so last Friday I tried to get all inspirational and shit with the video I posted about “getting over yourself” and “getting out of your own way” when it comes to taking your Mom Sexy back.

For the record, I think that I do “funny” better than I do “inspirational,” but I’d like to at least take more of a stab at trying to encourage women to feel confident and happy in their own skin, at this point in their lives.

As I was leaving Zumba last night, I started thinking about the whole Mom Sexy concept and I realized that I need to talk about it a lot more often than I do. Because there are plenty of women who NEED to hear about it. Because they DESERVE to have Mom Sexy in their lives.

Before my class, I met a woman who has lost 168 pounds so far on her Mom Sexy journey. I could feel the confidence oozing out of her…and it was contagious. I was proud of her. I was excited for her. And I was inspired by her story. She is the definition of Mom Sexy…and I know that someone reading this today will be empowered by hearing about her.

On that note…I’m going to attempt to start a little thing I am going to call “Mom Sexy Fridays.” Every Friday, I’m going to bring you a post or a video with some sort of Mom Sexy tip, weekend “homework”, or just something that inspired me Mom Sexy-wise that I feel the need to pass on to the masses.

But you guys know that my life gets kinda nutty from time to time, so getting my Mom Sexy on EVERY single Friday might be a little difficult sometimes.

And that is where you all come in. In addition to my Mom Sexy Friday posts and vlogs, I’d like to invite all of you to submit guest posts or videos for this series, in the hopes of sharing your story and inspiring other moms out there to get their groove back, and acquire the confidence that they are entitled to.

I even had my blog guru make me this cool little button for all of you Mom Sexy ladies who hop on board my bandwagon:



I sincerely hope that you will consider getting your Mom Sexy back with me, and sharing with other women anything that inspires you and makes you feel good about yourself, inside and out. What does Mom Sexy mean to you? How are you getting your Mom Sexy back? What made you realize just how amazing and Mom Sexy you are?

These are all questions that I’d LOVE to hear your answers to. Because Mom Sexy is different for each and every one of us. And someone out there NEEDS to hear YOUR story.

If you are interested in taking this journey with me and helping other moms get their sexy back, then please send me an email at themommyologist(at)gmail(dot)com.

(I’m seriously hoping that I don’t hear freakin’ crickets in my inbox).

Without further ado, I leave you with my FIRST official Mom Sexy Friday tip:

If you are prone to peeing your pants at Zumba, don’t wear blue yoga pants. Always wear black. I learned the hard way that the shade of blue really emphasizes the pee.

But I’m still Mom Sexy dammit. Because I can openly blog about pissing myself without one single shred of embarrassment.

What’s Mom Sexier than that?


  1. 1
    Sili says:

    YAY! This is FABU! You know I love it. And I will email you but, you know I’m down for a guest post. I’ll get to working on this as soon as I finish cleaning the not ONE but TWO pee stains on my bed this morning (from the kid, not me ;-).

    You will do wonderfully. Sometimes some people need to hear the inspirational shit through a funny voice. You inspire people a lot more than you think. Remember, you never know who is watching (damn, that made me sound like a stalker again!).


    • 2
      The Mommyologist says:

      Thank you so much!! Sometimes I feel like kind of a goofball, but humor is my thing, I guess. I am so happy that you are on board and would like to guest post! I really think that there are so many great Mom Sexy stories to share, and women will most benefit by hearing lots of different ones. I absolutely cannot wait to see what everyone comes up with!! xoxo

  2. 3

    Hi, don’t worry, i pee myself once a while, i feel like it’s my right of passage after having two kids. The worst is when I jump rope, and wear grey work out shorts. Been there, done that. I would love to join you in your mom sexy campaign. Maybe I could talk about cleaning poo while wearing $175 designer jeans. Now that, is bringing mom sexy back, NO? Have a great weekend. You are awesome.

    • 4
      The Mommyologist says:

      I would LOVE to hear that story!! It is really amazing what we do as moms…in designer jeans and all. Hope you will join in and have an amazing weekend!

  3. 5
    Angel says:

    Ohhhh i am in and as soon as I get home I will email you and add the button on my page.

  4. 7
    Evonne says:

    If humor is you thing, than go with it. It seems to work.

    I’ve been trying to improve my appearance, so I would love to guest post. I’ll shoot you an email. However, this morning was so Mom UN-Sexy it’s not even funny. All we can do is try, right?

    • 8
      The Mommyologist says:

      I am so happy you are on board! I can’t wait to hear what you come up with. Mom Sexy isn’t always easy, but we still make it work!!

  5. 9
    Diana says:

    I am totally going to start thinking of a Mom Sexy post to write. Because despite the fact that I haven’t slept through the night in over a year, I regularly wipe up poopy butts, pick up dog poo and then clean the litter box and feel its an accomplishment when I brush my teeth. I’m still sexy damnit! :)

  6. 11
    Leah says:

    Love this idea!! Mom Sexy Fridays is a great way to start the weekend!! If I find my mom sexy I will let you know, its missing these days…love your humorous spin on things, keep cranking out the funny!!

    • 12
      The Mommyologist says:

      I think you already have Mom Sexy and you just don’t know it! You are encouraging other women to be happy and follow their dreams, which is about as Mom Sexy as it gets!

  7. 13
    Sherri says:

    Thanks for the tip about the black pants…maybe the thought of peeing is what keeps me away from Zumba in the first place?

  8. 15

    Think this is a great idea Mary! And you are wonderful at being inspirational :)

    • 16
      The Mommyologist says:

      Thanks so much Sarah! I think this will be fun and hopefully help a few people feel better about themselves!

  9. 17
    Jocelyn says:

    All right, I’m in. Now I’ll have to think up something else besides the Mom Sexy post I already wrote. I haven’t peed in my pants lately, so I’ll have to find something good. :) Emailing you shortly.

  10. 19
    Shell says:

    Oh yay! So glad that you are going to do this! :)

    I’ll have to remember that zumba tip. LOL

    • 20
      The Mommyologist says:

      Hoping this works and I’m able to have some great stories to share! Feels good to be putting more time back into this than that “other” thing I do. 😉

  11. 21
    Kim says:

    Your “getting over yourself” post last week inspired me! I started doing my pilates again this week. And holy cow – its kicking my ass! But I feel so accomplished doing SOMETHING. Not only will it make me feel better about myself (once I can see some results) but I am proud of myself for finally doing something for ME.

    I look forward to your Mom Sexy Friday tips!!!

    • 22
      The Mommyologist says:

      It is so important to take time for yourself! I have been doing a Pilates class once a week too and I forgot what a great workout it is!!

  12. 23

    Yay! I would love to participate in this!

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    kelly caffee says:

    I love this idea!! Count me in if you’d like!! And thanks for the zumba tip – noted!!! :)

    • 26
      The Mommyologist says:

      I would love to hear your story! Mom Sexy is so different for everyone!

      • 27
        kelly caffee says:

        Let me know how I can get it to you – do we just blog our story on our blog and link to you?? I’m SO excited!!!

        • 28
          The Mommyologist says:

          Kelly, just emails me at themommyologist(at)gmail(dot)com and I will give you the details! Happy to have you on board!

  14. 29

    You KNOW I’m all over this shit. Love that you are doing this and this will light a fire under my ass to get that Q&A done for you.

  15. 31

    Great thought! Count me in!


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